you need thick skin to be on the pipe, most guys have hair triggers on their flame throwers on this thing so don't take to much of it personally. When you walk off the Jet you are free to do whatever you want (as long as it is legal and within company policy) as long as you show back up at the airport w/in specified time and are ready to work. You want to go slob nob your girlfirend at home or chase the FA around the hotel bar, it's your choice! Enjoy the job, believe me beats sitting at a desk 40 hrs a week.